#redhead may have been here

My career in sex work has been complicated, but it’s absolutely intertwined with motherhood.

Are you friends with a sex worker? Here’s what being a bestie - and an ally - really means.

In November of last year, I finally got back to work. But slipping back into sex work was far more difficult than I’d expected.

Whether you smell good. Whether you’re freshly shaved. Whether you’ve bothered to put on a clean shirt. When you make an effort, your worker knows you’re investing more than just money into the encounter - that you see the meeting as a special occasion.

I have played hockey almost all of my adult life. The speed, skill, and physicality of the game are exhilarating. I play in a primarily men’s league, and nothing cheers me up more than time in the box for a roughing penalty.