#ns may have been here

Instead of cheating or separating, some couples choose consensual non monogamy...and although it’s not straightforward, it could be worth considering.

The lives of 19th century women are known to us today mainly through their letters and writing, but also through the then new (black-and-white) portrait photography, and the vivid paintings, pastels and watercolours of impressionist artists.

At age 35 I quit an unfulfilling corporate job and started sex work as an independent full service kink friendly switch. My early days were filled with wild situations and marked by an utter lack of self preservation.

Society fashions sex workers as “canaries” by making us the first targets of so many new technologies of surveillance and exclusion.

In November of last year, I finally got back to work. But slipping back into sex work was far more difficult than I’d expected.