I am a New York City-based dominatrix and cultural activist. I started doing BDSM professionally in 2016 after finding a dungeon on craigslist (those were the days) and then mostly did online work for a year or two while I finished college before transitioning to full-time in-person BDSM.
'I believe the most important thing to do in life is constantly challenge yourself & learn as much as you can. You need to hustle hard in sex work to be successful.'
I thought Iβd had a plenitude of sexual experience when I startedβI... had a sex blog where I would write about OKCupid and Craigslist hookupsβbut most of those encounters were things I was hazing myself through.
'Thereβs a lot of hate in this world but through sex work β and Iβm talking specifically about companionship β we create such a loving intimate space for people, free of judgment.'