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When it comes to sex work, there’s no shortage of lessons to be learned about oneself, including what “sex”, “work” or even what the term “yourself” actually means. I’d have to say that it’s mostly taught me that there's no wrong or right answer.

'I think sex work has made me feel like I have to be in a binary to be able to be marketable, and it’s been a journey not letting that dictate my ability to actualize.'

Like many in this industry, my journey into it started from survival. I have tried every avenue of sex work, but always found Domming to be my calling. It’s easy to just be myself, completely unfiltered.

"BDSM to me is about taking a part or parts of ourselves and blowing them up to be our entire existence in this nonlinear moment of time. This might include aspects of ourselves that may be buried and that we often do not fully understand."

In our sex worker interview series we're speaking with San Francisco escort Cody Sweets about desirability, hookup apps, and the sympathetic nervous system!