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"BDSM to me is about taking a part or parts of ourselves and blowing them up to be our entire existence in this nonlinear moment of time. This might include aspects of ourselves that may be buried and that we often do not fully understand."

In our sex worker interview series we're joined by Mistress Valentina Milani to speak about the punk community, misconceptions, and being a sensual artist.

Like many in this industry, my journey into it started from survival. I have tried every avenue of sex work, but always found Domming to be my calling. It’s easy to just be myself, completely unfiltered.

I had always been curious about this sex work – I was lucky to, for whatever reason, keep out a lot of the negative messaging people around me growing up received about their sexuality.

In our latest sex worker interview series 'A Tryst With...' we chat with Vivienne Fae about work mothers, beauty, and the fetishisation of sex work.