I will see you. I will see you much more clearly than you may be used to being seen. I will empathize and understand you in ways you did not think you shared with me - or anyone. For those who desire to be seen and accepted and loved for who they are this is always a good thing, but for those who are not comfortable with who they are or prefer to only have the facade perceived, and not their inner truths, I am not a good choice of companion.
“ To be hopeful in bad times is not just foolishly romantic," Howard Zinn wrote. "It gives us the energy to act.”
“And if we do act, in however small a way, we don’t have to wait for some grand utopian future. The future is an infinite succession of presents, and to live now as we think human beings should live, in defiance of all that is bad around us, is itself a marvelous victory."
Now apply this thinking to your SEX LIFE.