Fun fact:
The hypocritical side of my social butterfly character is:
I don’t like A LOT of public attention
I can mix and mingle with controlled groups of people but for example
If I’m in the club (I don’t go often) and a gentlemen comes up to me (ready to spit game) I will shy away ... RUN 😂
Especially if they make me smile 🙅🏽♀️🏃🏾♀️
So being a provider allows me to explore why at times I can’t accept the simplest compliments.
Afraid of commitment? Maybe 🤷🏽♀️😂
Yay
Glad I’m not alone 😂😂
Whew! We dodged that Bullet! 😥😥
@Sweetnicole I feel the same way, I can't commit 😢
Yea it’s super weird
I have no issues having a partner but at some point I’ll break it off 🏃🏾♀️
On to the next 🤷🏽♀️
@Sweetnicole wow that is what I do, that's why I try to stick to providers so I won't have to break something off, Maybe a ebony queen will tie me down lol🤔
Yea I realized I get bored faster with partners than I do with watching a movie 3+ more times a day 😂🤷🏽♀️
Maybe
Who knows maybe having 1 partner isn’t ideal🤔🤷🏽♀️
@Sweetnicole so true I like variety, lol 😂
@Sweetnicole I think the best sex is when your trying to land somebody, 🤔
Maybe
But for me ... once that flame is over then now I want it elsewhere
Damn I’m sounding like a true hoe over here 😂😂
Indecisive really 🤷🏽♀️
@Sweetnicole I agree wow I must admit that I might be a hoe too 😂, you like what you like no judgment here, I still want you 💖❤️❣️🌷🌹
@Sweetnicole it's OK to have your cake and eat it too and lol life is to short ❤️
@Sweetnicole Just one reason why we ♥️ you. Not too unlike we gents who aren't nearly as suave and debonnaire IRL, but can up the ante when we know we're entering a temple of acceptance. 🤗 ♥️ 😘
@Sweetnicole I know no other way than to be myself. With someone like you, I'm able to be me as well as the little 😈 inside that generally stays hidden from public view. ♥️
It took me a few years to realize that being a “scripted” provider only hurts me ... I would find myself hiding my smile and not having fun at something that I feel is supposed to be fun
So when I was ready to be authentic I wanted the same for my clients
I love creating our own masterpiece in a mutual comfortable space
@Sweetnicole That's very revealing. Thanks for sharing that. ♥️
Both parties allowing walls to crumble and chemistry and connection to ignite is what sparks electricity and a genuine bond, IMHO. When everything's firing ... look out! ⚡️ 💥 🙃
#ThingATFsAreMadeOf ♥️ 😘
Vulnerability... scary but worth exploring
@Sweetnicole No more powerful words have been spoken or experienced. #truth 🙏
@Sweetnicole you are one of a kind.. 💎
Love this post and the thread below. I enjoy exploring human interactions as it is fascinating to me. I could write a book on this stuff.
I’m a fairly natural leader and have led teams of 250+; totally comfortable speaking in front of large crowds; but treasure the little bit of alone time that I get.
I speak up every chance I get when someone has a hard time accepting a genuine compliment. There absolutely is a bit of art to it.
I completely vibe with you on leadership
In college I led many conferences for my peers and other students on my campus
Can teach and host lectures
Love to have a camera and a creative script in front of me (theatre minor)
But the moment I allow a genuine soul tell me how much I blove long on his earth and why.. I freeze.. why me? And is bad I can’t believe you yet
My mind races with compliments 😂🤔
It is so important to trust that the complimenting person is being genuine and history can certainly jade someone’s ability to believe and trust.
I love to sit back and observe people. True colors are typically pretty close to the surface with a little observation.
You and I are gonna need a lot of time when you come back to town. Need plenty of time for intellectual and, ahem, other stimulation. 😘😍😍
@Sweetnicole I am exactly the same. Deep down inside, I'm actually really shy. I think being a provider helps bring out the other hidden side. 😂
@Sweetnicole
#imthesame #kindredspirits 😄😄