I've been handling phone calls all morning, including one person who scheduled and then flaked, but still no appointments yet. Let's do the math to see how much I'm actually making per hour. It's been non-stop for two hours, but so far nothing for today. Thankfully I do have one pre-book later tonight that I think is solid. But people need to start reading my website instead of asking me everything, and they need to start booking. Sorry, had to #rant.
@Miss_Kat You can't be too careful, because there are definitely sensual massage therapists out there with entire galleries of noods who'll make you climb up on their massage tables fully clothed 😂
@Miss_Kat Go right ahead & rant! I had some joker text me at 12am.. Never wanted 2 talk on the phone..! Called me MEAN.. Complete idiot... Me...? Not text friendly.. especially at that hr..! Love to BLOCK ..Plenty of action..at the point of my THUMB..😡
@shawnanuru32
I make liberal use of the "block" feature. My block list is long.
@Miss_Kat I wish I cld just purchase a 1-888 or 1800 number... No text's cld go..............thru...🤡 Reverse charges are a KILLER on the monthly expenses....😭 But that's life..!
@Miss_Kat @MidtownHolistic @V_CMT kinda working on something for us Body rub ladies.. It will take time..tho..? Personally we shouldn't be advertising on #escort site's.. It confuses client's..! Also those gent's are seeking F/S. Dennis is a blow heart.. A lady i know works for him from time to time.. Brothel's in Nevada are for F/S,Dominatrix.. Personally I wld rather work at a B.R by appt place. Do 7 B.R's..go home. Avoid the Cop hassle..all together..!!
@shawnanuru32 @Miss_Kat @V_CMT I worked at one here the city for years. Started off okay. Then it got too much favoritism and expanded too much. Now I just have my own thing going in Midtown seems to be working well.
@MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat @V_CMT I do OUT CALL only.. I worked at a location in Oct-Dec 2015.. Attracted cop's.. Too many girls. 9...Office building. So I left... I dont wanna be around when cop's sting an Incall location that's doing Body rubs... ! No thanks!
@shawnanuru32 @Miss_Kat @MidtownHolistic I watched some random guy sit on the URL "sensualmassage.com" for years hoping someone would pay him big bucks for it, and it pissed me off because we could have used our own ad space all along. As it is now it's rubRATINGS (don't want ratings thanks) or rubmaps (massage parlors not indies) or Sacred Eros (tantric pros but not us non-spiritual FBSM types). We never get our own thing.
@V_CMT @shawnanuru32 @Miss_Kat people were using massageanywhere.com but they kind of pulled the plug on it after FOSTA/SESTA
@MidtownHolistic @shawnanuru32 @Miss_Kat I was on there for the longest time then got reported by someone (going with killing the competition as the most likely reason) and showed up one day to see I didn't exist.
@V_CMT @shawnanuru32 @Miss_Kat what city was it in?
@MidtownHolistic @shawnanuru32 @Miss_Kat Hard to say since it was probably weeks before I realized it (I still advertised on BP but would link to MA for the reviews, which unlike every other site were ok because "rated G"). Then all of a sudden one day I checked my links and I was deleted.
@V_CMT @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat Mass Any Wh will delete a profile quickly... Well ladies.. talk with you later.. Maybe tonight ..? have a good day.. Make lot's of $$$..
@shawnanuru32 @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat They'll delete a profile in a flash *if someone reports it*. In their FAQ (at least at time time) they explicitly said they wouldn't review anything unless it was reported. Plus my profile wasn't explicit at all, so they had to also find my ads elsewhere or something.
Anyway, I'd started getting flagged off BP after escorts merged into the massage category, so I'm pretty sure it was a flag the competition issue. TTYL
@shawnanuru32 @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat *the* time, Jesus...
@V_CMT @shawnanuru32 @MidtownHolistic Really? That sucks. I only do fbsm but I never cared about escorts in the massage section, especially when they have nowhere else to go, and I never would have flagged anyone without good reason. That's totally shitty.
@Miss_Kat @shawnanuru32 @MidtownHolistic I didn't care about escorts in the massage section until they all started offering "massage", a word that was never used in the escort section when it existed.
@V_CMT @Miss_Kat @MidtownHolistic as provider's we all do "different thing's". ! There are many Dominatrix who work in Film,print,attend festivals,. Some are under the radar..Even porn ,webcam,fetish,body rub,escorts,stripper's,Go-go dancers,,Male escorts, We are are separate...But Equal.. We should stand together to prevent discrimination from Housing,Govt and the general public.!
@shawnanuru32 @Miss_Kat @MidtownHolistic When I said “I didn’t care” I meant “didn’t mind”. The conversation is about clarity in advertising, not the human value of providers.
@Miss_Kat @V_CMT @MidtownHolistic Many body rub sites aren't that lucrative..Because the REAL money is in PORN & F/S sex work..! So many men tend to go to Chinese,Japanese,Korean parlors.. They are really popular in Japan.. and Hong Kong.. There is a apt building for incall prostitutes in Beijing ,China.. It'as popular as In & Out Burger's.. LEGAL..Yep..!
@shawnanuru32 @Miss_Kat @MidtownHolistic That’s why that guy sitting on sensualmassage.com infuriated me, because it was never going to be some big breakout part of the industry, but it could have been somebody building a simple database for the community
@shawnanuru32 @Miss_Kat @V_CMT I think that certain demographic cities. Fbsm seems to be popular in New York and DC areas in particular.
@MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat @V_CMT F.B.S.M kinda sprang from Massage parlor's..{Rub & Tug joints)..and Legal 7 regulated CMT/LMT industry.. Except no man wants to be cornered in a Spa encase of a Sting or Robbery attempt..!
@shawnanuru32 @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat They don’t want, true, but they don’t always think until it happens
@V_CMT @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat Years ago some man was robbing Massage parlors and the girl's..Can you imagine all the $$ you've earned and some stick-up artist.. Rob's the register,girl's & customer's..? My $$$ wont be sitting around..Just waiting to Walk off with some greedy jerk...! Never caught the Scum bag....Escorts,Bodyrub girls R easy TARGETS for robbery.. say her name RIP #julissabrisman . Murdered by C-List Killer in 2009
@shawnanuru32 @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat I talk about the Craigslist killer all the time. And about how you don’t even have to be in the adult industry to be murdered meeting somebody off the net. There’s no excuse for people’s cyclical amnesia that makes them forget we have to screen until another one of us dies and makes headlines.
@shawnanuru32 @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat It used to infuriate me when guys on boards would say 1) I don’t have to screen for “just massage” and 2) since I am screening I must secretly be offering more than massage. People answering ads for things like babysitting jobs have been killed. You screen before you meet a stranger, period.
@V_CMT @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat Times have really changed..and we all tend to forget.. That EVIL wears many faces... The C-List killer was a Medical student...But he had ANGER..and Mood swing's.. If you watch it on You-tube.. This man robbed Escorts ,Stripper at Marriot,Hyatt hotel's.. Touring & doing Incall is dangerous... Take a friend ..Also search client B4 he enter's room. 2012..A airline pilot assaulted & raped a Escort . TER provider..
@shawnanuru32 @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat Not pre-screening is dangerous. Had she screened him I doubt the authorities would’ve needed to run his security camera footage asking the public if they knew the guy. They’d have just been able to subpoena her phone or email records. Anyway...
@V_CMT @shawnanuru32 @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat explained this to me T today.
@KLttyKat @V_CMT @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat Okay.. Miss KLtty...how are you again..? I found ur messages today,,when i signed in.. Talking abt Bitcoin Or Body rubs..?
@KLttyKat @V_CMT @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat Ladies you should read this Book... SUGAR DADDY by author Miss Rie Warren Published 2014 Leading character is "Shay Greer".. Sassy lady..I haven't read it yet.. (KINDLE).. also Amazon bks.. Gd night
@shawnanuru32 @KLttyKat @V_CMT @MidtownHolistic I'll check that out. I always love reading things written by other sex workers. I hope everyone had a safe and productive day. Good night!
@shawnanuru32 @KLttyKat @V_CMT @Miss_Kat thanks so much I'm always looking for great new books:)
@V_CMT @shawnanuru32 @MidtownHolistic @Miss_Kat I screen ANY GUY before I meet him, business or pleasure. Met him on Tinder and thinking about going on an actual date? SCREENED! Don't think I didn't run his number and name through all me checks.
@shawnanuru32 @V_CMT @Miss_Kat I've heard of that happening here years ago. Turned out to be the boyfriend of one of the girls working there.
@shawnanuru32 @V_CMT @MidtownHolistic I finally got a busy day going! Yay! I hope everyone else is having a good day. If not, there's always tomorrow! 🤠
@Miss_Kat @shawnanuru32 @V_CMT thanks! I'm off until Wednesday but getting stuff lined up for when I get back to work:)
@MidtownHolistic @V_CMT @Miss_Kat Encino,Ca .. and Tarzana,Ca .. So I stick to Out Call.. A Under Cover cop showed up at the office building.. in 2015 one night.. I think he was looking for a girl..or hiding in the building..? I saw his Face pic from an associate.. Then..looked through "Peep-hole".. Didn't answer the door. Waited for him to leave office blding.. Went out the window to my car.. Fool followed me.. His 4dr.. Black tinted car was the same car I saw in Oct 2015.
@shawnanuru32 @V_CMT @Miss_Kat I think my roommate interview at that place years ago. I used to live in Hollywood, Burbank, and Woodland Hills before I moved back east.
@MidtownHolistic @shawnanuru32 @Miss_Kat Y'all are like my geographic dopplegangers.
@Miss_Kat It's amazing to me that providers still put their numbers on the web and don't rant more than they do.
My favorite thing used to be getting calls while in line at the grocery store stuck between two full carts and then being asked for details. That was often followed by this once every day exchange:
(stage whisper) "Clothing optional therapeutic and sensual massage."
(long pause)
"So by 'clothing optional'... are you referring to you? Or to me?"
Every. goddamn. day.