@Mauri15 may have been here

Consent is conditional by design, it requires specific circumstances and/or conditions to be maintained continuously. The introduction of money or some material good as a requisite condition does not negate this basic fact.

Instead of cheating or separating, some couples choose consensual non monogamy...and although it’s not straightforward, it could be worth considering.

Society fashions sex workers as “canaries” by making us the first targets of so many new technologies of surveillance and exclusion.

Sex work allowed me to experience times without financially struggling which is something I was not used to.

Sex-negativity and whorephobia are the societal norm, and it’s very unusual to be in a relationship with someone who can handle my job without doing some serious work on themselves first.