I feel like a lot of clients confuse being a considerate lover with respecting. There are broadly two categories of clients: the ones who like to please and the ones who just want to be pleased. One is as valid as the other. Respect is not about who is 'unselfish' in bed. It's about being mindful of my boundaries and booking process.

@FionaLutalica This! I didn't enter this industry expecting to be the one receiving all the pleasure. My focus is entirely on my client and making sure he has a nice time (within my own boundaries, of course). While I appreciate that lots of clients are focused on their partner's pleasure, it doesn't inherently make them "better" or "more respectful" than those who simply agree to my limits and let me do my job.

@FionaLutalica with the most respect I would like to point out that you missed a category. I choose to please and am uncontrollably pleasured thereafter by your face, muscle contractions, and spasms!

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