"kisses... are
and always will be
the only language
that I will have
ever truly known"

For the discerning gentleman who is looking to share quality time with a visiting lady who can offer a genuine experience with looks and personality to match.


Location: Hong Kong

Contact: www.fionalutalica.com

I've updated my blog post about the things you don't have to worry about when you book a SW. It's written for newbie clients and clients who tend to worry too much (or have self esteem issues, or simply the wrong idea of what SWs expect from their clients) before a booking but feel shy to address them. I hope this helps to alleviate some of that anxiety and help you have a better time :)

fionalutalica.com/blog


The bathroom is always the brightliest lit room at home, but on a hot day like this, I like turn the lights off and shower in the dark.

If you feel overwhelmed, emotionally drained, try a dark shower or bath. It's a wonderfully nurturing and soothing experience.

"I respect you too much to pay you."

I had clients say this to me and what they meant was, I like you and I want to see you again, so I am offering myself to you but I am not offering to pay you because paying would demean the precious sacred nature of a true relationship based on kindness and caring which is what you deserve but giving you money would commodify it and I respect you too much to do that.

No. Paying someone for their labor is the ultimate form of showing respect.

"I respect you too much to pay you."

I had clients say this to me and what they meant was, I like you and I want to see you again, so I am offering myself to you but I am not offering to pay you because paying would demean the precious sacred nature of a true relationship based on kindness and caring which is what you deserve but giving you money would commodify it and I respect you too much to do that.

No. Paying someone for their labor is the ultimate form of showing respect.

"How long can you hold an appointment? When is the latest I can confirm?"

a) I don't "hold" appointments. The only way for you to get an appt is to actually make an appt.

b) Making an appt is not about being sure that you can keep it, but to show that you are willing to commit.

If you have an existing booking, you might lose a cancellation fee. If you don't, you might lose an opportunity.

It's up to you to decide which one is the greater loss to you.

Some of the most intimate moments SWs and their clients can share are non-sexual/physical but simply about enjoying each other's company.

Quotes from my favorite TV shows that are even better when you place them in a sex work context.

Boundaries are boundaries for a reason. The services we choose not to provide are usually services we don't feel safe or comfortable performing. Please don't go into a booking with the expectation that boundaries are negotiable or will simply vanish once we've gotten to know each other and you've had a chance to show me what a nice and safe guy you are. Also, offering money doesn't help. If it was simply a matter of charging extra, we would have already done it

Client: "How do I know you are not LE?"

Dude, I'm an Asian GFE provider who doesn't offer anal or bbbj, who screens and requests deposits, ignores messages like 'r u avail' or 'oral how much' and expects her potential clients to read her website and introduce themselves with more than 3 word sentences. If I wanted to entrap men, would I paint myself into such a niche that it cuts out 80% of the existing client pool?

"Books and whores have much in common. Both take your money, show you a good time and then throw you back out into the world."

I feel like a lot of clients confuse being a considerate lover with respecting. There are broadly two categories of clients: the ones who like to please and the ones who just want to be pleased. One is as valid as the other. Respect is not about who is 'unselfish' in bed. It's about being mindful of my boundaries and booking process.

A client who worries more about his regular SW finding out about his 'cheating' on her w other SWs than about his wife finding out abt his punting habit is like a man who fears his accountant more than the IRS.


1. Always make an effort.
2. Don't make it look like an effort.

“Even so, there were times I saw freshness and beauty. I could smell the air, and I really loved rock 'n' roll. Tears were warm, and girls were beautiful, like dreams. I liked movie theaters, the darkness and intimacy, and I liked the deep, sad summer nights.”

― Haruki Murakami, Dance Dance Dance

Famous last words: "“I'm sure we would've smelled it before it burnt."

To new beginnings.

Switter

Switter, a sex work-friendly social space. Check out Tryst.link, our verified escort directory. Looking for listings? Visit Switter Listings Looking for Backpage alternatives?